Posts Tagged ‘penis’

Questions from the Twittersphere: time spent during sex

By Dr. Carol Queen • Jun 24th, 2009 • Category: Blog, Carol Queen, Good Advice

If a guy doesn’t climax after 20 mins of foreplay and 30 mins of sex does it mean the sex is terrible?

Oh, this is an awesome question! No, it doesn’t necessarily mean the sex is terrible at all. It might be so great that he’s trying with all his will not to let it end — so many people, of all genders, are trained to think that when a guy comes, the sex is over, that many men try hard NOT to climax! And that can train a man, whether he intended to do so or not, to have a hard time coming at all. (Of course, in reality, the sex doesn’t have to be over until everyone involved has had enough fun, or until it’s time to catch the bus for work, whichever comes first.)


Penis: The True Story

By John Thursday • Jun 10th, 2009 • Category: Erotic Philosophy by John Thursday, Features

What’s it like to have a penis? I get asked that a lot, and not always by women.
There’s no single answer. My relationship with my dangling self, like all healthy relationships, has evolved over time. We have grown and changed together, staying up late, swapping stories.
I must say it is undeniably fun to have a [...]


Naked Hugging

By John Thursday • Aug 15th, 2007 • Category: Be Our Guest, Erotic Philosophy by John Thursday

Have you ever seen two naked straight men try to hug? I have.
It happened a few weeks ago at a camp out. Summer is camp out season here in the Bay Area, a time when alternative communities pack their cars and head north to the woods. Though leaving the big city, contemplating the serenity [...]