Archives for the ‘Sexual Pleasure’ Category

The Down and Not-too Dirty On Anal Play

By M. Christian • Jan 21st, 2001 • Category: Sexual Pleasure

For many men the anus is terrifying and unknowable — a personal black hole — but it doesn’t have to be. The anus (the exterior part of the asshole) and rectum (the interior part) can be very sexually stimulating parts of the male anatomy.
The first step in getting to know your anus is to simply [...]


Female Genital Massage

By Heather Peltier • Jan 7th, 2001 • Category: Sexual Pleasure

If you’re shallow, that’s okay. In fact, it may be especially good when you’re talking about pussy.
So much of the attention lavished on female genitals is about penetration — not that there’s anything wrong with that. But if you’re looking for a change of pace, either as a giver or receiver, think about forgoing that [...]


Mapping the Male Body: There’s More to Men’s Pleasure Than In-Out-Repeat

By Darklady • Sep 21st, 2000 • Category: Sexual Pleasure

Pleasuring men? Men’s sexuality? What’s there to talk about? It’s pretty basic, after all. In, out, repeat if necessary, right?
Oh, please. Spare me. Spare them.
For the past few decades, and with good reason, feminist/humanist-minded sex educators have increasingly focused on women’s pleasure. Not because it’s more important than that of men, but because it’s historically [...]


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