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What is the best way to cure premature ejaculation?  I have started to do kegel exercises.  How do I know if this will work?  How do I know if it is something else?
I do not want to use those sprays or creams but I get so stimulated.  I think I just need practice but I [...]

“I’m worried that I do not have a sex drive. At all. Right now my boyfriend and I have sex regularly but I don’t enjoy it and find myself making excuses to avoid it. I’ve read that this can be due to medication, but I don’t think I’ve ever enjoyed sex in the decade or [...]

Dr Queen:
Due to my upbringing, I wanted to wait for complete sexual intimacy until I met someone special, and so I have never experienced penis penetration. I am not gay ~ I just don’t believe in casual sex (I find it difficult to meet someone where there is mutual attraction and someone who believes in [...]

I’m hoping that I can receive some advice or at least insight regarding a particular sexual fantasy and its particular implications (if not from having it, then from sharing it).
I’m a heterosexual monogamous female who’s married to a loving man of the same sexual orientation.  We’ve been together for 7 years (since we were [...]

I am a male, 72 years young, and I am concerned about my diminishing sex drive. I have diabetes which was diagnosed 4 months ago, my sugar remains with lower ranges. I do not have to take Insulin, and I am reasonably healthy. I have difficulty getting and keeping an erection. I am bombarded with  [...]

My Good Doctors:
I have suffered from delayed ejaculation (and orgasm) since I became sexually active  in the early seventies. It is a bother to not be able to orgasm without or with a partner.
I can find very little on the net except that 1) hypnosis may be of help (how or for what the NIH [...]

My wife, age 42, recently (12/09) had a full hysterectomy due to endometriosis.
We waited 8 weeks before trying intercourse again.  However it was not a pleasant experience.  She experienced quite a lot of pain, and her vagina seems to be a lot shorter in terms of depth.  We asked her Doctor who performed the surgery [...]

Can you tell me if there is any association between anal penetration and incontinence.  Would stretching the muscles cause a laxity later in life?
Thanks for your great question!
The pelvic floor muscles commonly known as Kegels or PC (short for pubococcygeal) muscles are a significant part of the system that keeps our innards inside us, allows [...]

Hello!
I have a couple of questions regarding sexual activities in my relationship.

I am the female half of a monogamous straight couple.
I come from a very conservative background (I think I was born into the wrong family; some poor liberal family is wondering where their conservative child came from!), but I have been opening up quite [...]

This post first appeared on tressugar.com
Sometimes sex is not comfortable. My girlfriend told me I should use lube, but I’m curious about which kind is the best. I’m also a little worried about how to bring it up with my boyfriend without hurting his feelings. Any advice would be great!
There are a lot of reasons [...]

What is the proper way to use a cock ring. My partner has had trouble keeping an erection and I wanted to try to use one.
Cock rings are used to restrict blood flow out of the penis, which creates a sensation of tightness and pressure that many people find pleasurable. Although some people find that [...]

My wife has gone through Menopause and is 55 years young, and now has no interest in sex. What can I do?
There are several things that might affect a woman’s sexual interest in mid-life, and I’ll try to lay them out here. To find out which elements are likely to be affecting your wife, you’ll [...]

I have a friend (and yes it really is my friend) who had a boyfriend for 3 years. Throughout the 3 years, they never really had sex because it hurt her way too much. She says any kind of penetration is extremely painful for her and not enjoyable. She recently broke up with her boyfriend [...]

I’m currently on yaz the birth control pills and it is completely ruining my sex drive. It takes me twice as long to become wet and stay that way. I also have lost most of my interest in sex. This happened to me before sometime last year. So, I stopped using them and everything returned [...]

“I was married for 25 years now I’m back in the dating world. I met this guy whom I’ve been dating twice I was giving him a hand job and he complained I hurt him. How do you give a hand job? No complaints in any other departments.”

Before getting into some of the helpful tips, [...]

“What should I do to prepare for anal… if anything at all! I’ve heard enemas… I’ve heard nothing.. I want to make it as enjoyable as possible for both of us. Your help is appreciated.”

It’s not 100% clear from your question whether you’re asking about how to have anal sex or if you’re just [...]

Dear Dr. Queen, I need advice…I’m a 30-something female recovering from childhood sexual abuse and a recent rape. My therapist and I are working on discovering and discussing my sexuality. Any advice about how to continue my sexual healing and how to allow myself to feel physical sexual sensations in my body?

Dear Dr. Queen,
I am a female 65 yrs. Young and had a  complete hysterectomy in  1987.  Of course, you already know I lost everything that makes me want sex.  I had to fake it.  In the last few years, I learned that I can stimulate my clitoris and claim some victory with use of a vibrator.  [...]

Dear Dr. Queen,
I got your email from my gynecologist at Planned Parenthood Golden Gate because she had no idea how to help me.
You see, about a year ago I had a bike with a very, very hard seat. I suppose I was a careless rider because I ended up whacking my crotch quite a few [...]

Dear Good Vibes:
I’m new to bondage. After a particularly long and intense session this last Saturday, my hands were tingly and numb. I moved them around and they felt better, so I didn’t think anything of it, and didn’t tell my “top”, who had shown me such a fantastic time, that there was [...]