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Anal Play for Men: Getting Ready for Strap-On Play

By Elizabeth Colvin • Jul 21st, 2007 • Category: Sexual Pleasure

In response to one of my recent articles on male anal pleasure, an interested customer said that he found my articles for women very interesting — but wanted to know how a guy can let his girlfriend know that he’s interested in trying some anal play.
This is a very common question — one that more [...]



High Heels

By Elizabeth Colvin • Jul 9th, 2004 • Category: Pure Gold: Erotica from the Archives

I know it’s about the high heels. I know that, but I don’t care. Because they’re my feet in them, and feeling you worship them is the same as having you worship me.
We go out for dinner at a nice restaurant. I wear a sexy dress, but not too sexy, because it’s not the [...]



Talking to His Ass, Part Four: Strap-on Play with Men

By Elizabeth Colvin • Jun 21st, 2003 • Category: Sexual Pleasure

In my previous articles in this series, I’ve discussed how an anal-interested girl can invite a man to let her explore his butt, how to get started and how to explore the deeper excitement of male anal eroticism. I’m tempted to say, “On to the main event,” but looking at strap-on play as a “main [...]



Realistic Silicone Dildos

By Elizabeth Colvin • Mar 11th, 2003 • Category: Research Labs

When it comes to dildos, for me it’s all about realism. Whether I’m wearing the toy in a harness or I’m on the receiving end of it, there’s something very hot to me about having a dildo that looks — as much as dildos ever do — like a real, live cock. But for years [...]



Men’s Sleeves

By Elizabeth Colvin • Nov 21st, 2002 • Category: Sexual Pleasure

I’ve always loved sex toys. Ever since I got my first Hitachi I’ve loved trying the different options and attachments for it — and of course, as much as I love that old workhorse, I adore trying new toys as well.
And anyone who’s read my previous articles in “Male Sexual Pleasure” knows that I’m not [...]



Zombie Love

By Elizabeth Colvin • Oct 9th, 2002 • Category: Pure Gold: Erotica from the Archives

Jake was dressed up like a zombie. That’s how it started. I mean, not that I’ve got a thing for monsters, or anything, but you remember Young Frankenstein? “A creature like that would have a very large schwanzstucker.” Know what a schwanzstucker is? I didn’t either. But you get the idea. Jake had one, all [...]



Double Penetration

By Elizabeth Colvin • Sep 21st, 2002 • Category: Sex and Culture, Sexual Pleasure

Double penetration is a huge fantasy for many women and men — we need only to look to its prevalence in erotic videos to find that out. Called “DP” in the adult video industry, double penetration has become a common variation shown in porn, and one that video consumers increasingly expect and want. But how [...]



Mine

By Elizabeth Colvin • Aug 9th, 2001 • Category: Blog

I’ve been saving it for you. I know it’s a big fantasy of yours; you confessed as much after our long first night of making love, when we both lay tangled in the sheets together. I’ve even showed you my cock, watching as you squirmed a little, contemplating what it would feel like to take [...]



Mine

By Elizabeth Colvin • Aug 1st, 2001 • Category: Erotica, Pure Gold: Erotica from the Archives

I’ve been saving it for you. I know it’s a big fantasy of yours; you confessed as much after our long first night of making love, when we both lay tangled in the sheets together. I’ve even showed you my cock, watching as you squirmed a little, contemplating what it would feel like to take [...]



Talking To His Ass, Part Three

By Elizabeth Colvin • Apr 21st, 2001 • Category: Sexual Pleasure

In the last two “Male Pleasure” columns (available in the archives above), I talked about how you could bring up the subject of male anal love and get started playing with your boy’s butt.
If everything’s gone swimmingly, you might want to expand your technique, adopt new tools and help your man enjoy new forms of [...]



Talking To His Ass Part Two

By Elizabeth Colvin • Mar 21st, 2001 • Category: Sexual Pleasure

Last month I discussed a few ways you might open up the avenues of communication with your man, and let him know you’re interested in playing with his butt. What then? Suppose he tells you he’s interested. How do you get started? Though last month’s column applied pretty much to women getting it on with [...]



Talking To His Ass

By Elizabeth Colvin • Feb 21st, 2001 • Category: Sexual Pleasure

Plenty of guys are fascinated by buttholes — or at least by the idea of buttholes. Want proof? Why does anal sex appear in practically every mainstream erotic video made in recent years?
On the other hand, why is it that those videos always feature the woman on the receiving end? Not that I’m complaining, mind [...]