It’s Not the Tip of the Iceberg
By Evie • Jun 3rd, 2009 • Category: Blog, Good Advice, Sex Ed 101, Sex ToysIn the course of my career as a sex educator at Good Vibrations, I have had numerous conversations with customers and it is always amazes me with their very interesting philosophies and views I hear about sexuality.
Some things are enlightening. Some comments make me take a deep breath and hope they can’t see the look of horror in my face-when I hear things like “oh yeah I’ve used the Turbo Glider for anal, but it was too hard for me”…A good thing they didn’t have the unexpected spasm into that part of the body, because they probably would have shared a different kind of story of how they flew to the emergency room at the hospital to retrieve it from their body cavity. (This is a gentle reminder to only use toys for anal with a base at the bottom of the toy).
And sometimes I get good tips and suggestions from customers and co-workers. Here are some tidbits of information I have gotten: (they are not listed in any particular order)
- If you want to keep the buckles of your harness from rusting, put some clear nail polish on them.
- If you want to feel more direct stimulation when you are the giver, during harness play, try using the smart balls or the We Vibe and give your self some additional sexy fun.
- If you want a good hair defrizzer, stretch out your leather shoes or need a good make up primer-use silicone lubrication.
- To decrease the gag reflex when giving fellatio, hold your breath.
- If you want a twice-as-nice (rabbit-style) toy amped up, use the We Vibe and your favorite dildo.
- Use a vibrating cock ring as a hands free vibe for teasing your partner or manually stimulating your clitoris.
- If you want to use a dildo in a creative way, try putting it between two cushions in your sofa and go for a ride!
- Put a vibrating cock ring on your favorite vibrator and turn it into an internal/external vibrator.
- If you want to be a sexual goddess in the art of oral play, use the Laya on the side of your cheek when giving fellatio.
- If you want to test a vibrator in see if the intensity is strong enough for you, try putting it on the tip of your nose.
- If you want to give your partner more fullness, use the Handy Sleeve during intercourse-you will both love the sensation.
- Not sure what level of intensity or volume each vibrator is? Go to our website and check out our chart!
- Not sure what the right vibe is for you? Check out my blog entry “Give me the best vibrator you have”
- My last tip and I think a very helpful one is-if you have any questions regarding toys, lubes or sexual techniques, go to our website www.goodvibes.com and click on the menu Sex Ed 101. Go to the store and events section and sign up for one of our fun and informative classes or visit one of our stores. If I didn’t work for the company, it would still be one of my favorite places to shop for all my erotic goodies. Come in and say hi, mention that you read this blog entry (It’s not the tip of the Iceberg) and receive a 10% friends and family discount — tell the Sesa’s, ‘Evie sent me’.
If you have some good tips you would like to share with our readers, send me an email at eabston@goodvibes.com
Thanks Evie for some great and some unusual toy tips. I have extremely frizzy hair and I am always looking for a way to control it. Your tip about silicone lube is great. This will come in very handy on humid days.
Glad i could be of help. If you ever have any other questions, just shoot me an email. I am happy to know that there are people who are reading my blog:)