Comments on: Make Love Not Porn… sort of… http://magazine.goodvibes.com/2009/02/04/make-love-not-porn-sort-of/ Sex Blog and Erotica from Good Vibes Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:38:52 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Aspasia http://magazine.goodvibes.com/2009/02/04/make-love-not-porn-sort-of/comment-page-1/#comment-13892 Aspasia Thu, 05 Feb 2009 00:45:35 +0000 http://magazine.goodvibes.com/?p=1920#comment-13892 Well, I must be a porn chick, because going straight for my pleasure zone gets me wet and ready within five minutes and then I last for the rest of the day. I think it's a bit narrow to exclude the porn scenario from women's sexuality because, as I just testified, there ARE women for whom that works and who prefer that approach to sex. What's important is knowing what your lover wants just asking them and exploring their body (ies) and reading responses. That applies whether you've known them for a few minutes or for several years. Not that the so-called "real world" way doesn't work for me, because it does. I'm a very sexual and sensual woman and there's not just one pathway to my lust and pleasure. Well, I must be a porn chick, because going straight for my pleasure zone gets me wet and ready within five minutes and then I last for the rest of the day. I think it’s a bit narrow to exclude the porn scenario from women’s sexuality because, as I just testified, there ARE women for whom that works and who prefer that approach to sex. What’s important is knowing what your lover wants just asking them and exploring their body (ies) and reading responses. That applies whether you’ve known them for a few minutes or for several years.

Not that the so-called “real world” way doesn’t work for me, because it does. I’m a very sexual and sensual woman and there’s not just one pathway to my lust and pleasure.

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