Good Vibrations Magazine

There’s so much writing on the G spot I’m really not going to try to say anything original here. And I’m sure questions about the G spot, how to find it, is it really a myth, etc roll through Good Vibrations stores on a regular basis. But I personally have been feeling like I’ve been hearing them a lot more than usual.

Being the blabber mouth that I am, I could easily go into some Too Much Information (TMI) territory here. And, trust me, I’m tempted. I even wrote some TMI down. But, alas, too many people know the real identity of dentaldamAge, and we wouldn’t want to take all the fun out of the guessing game…

So, I will just say this. If you have not found your G spot. Or maybe found it once, but sadly never again. Or maybe your ex-boyfriend accidentally found it 5 years ago, but since then you yourself have not been able to find it…theoretically, that is….I have a recommendation:

Read The Good Vibrations Guide: The G-Spot by Cathy Winks.

We carry it in the store. We sell it online. You could probably even find it used. And, lucky for me, it’s on my required reading list as a GV employee.

Now, this may seem like a product plug of some kind. And it is. But, us SESAs in general really, really, believe in the products we plug. And let me tell you, after reading this book and doing a little homework of my own, I cannot recommend this book enough. And here’s why:

* Not including endnotes, this book is 52 pages. Small pages, too. With pictures. So you don’t spend all night reading, and you can spend more time practicing

* It’s $9.50. The price of a sandwich in this city.

* Unlike some how-to sex books or advice columns, this book offers clear information, in straight-forward language. It gets to the point, but it also doesn’t skip over the mental and emotional sides of G spot play and orgasm. Which, is great.

* It covers anatomy. With pictures. And physical exercises that you, or you and a partner, or you and a toy, can do together. So, it applies to real physical life and stimulates other parts of your body besides your brain.

* It also has pictures and blurbs about toys that can help you in your hunt, many of which we carry. Because, one of the trickiest things about the G-spot is many people can’t seem to find it with fingers alone, and must employ a partner or toy as an assistant. I will say here too, we have more toy options than the book covers, so come into the store and we’ll gladly assist.

Now, before you get all excitable, thinking that this 52-page book is the key to unlocking that porn-esque, screaming, squirting, mind blowing G-spot orgasm, let’s just take the pressure off for a quick second.

Everybody’s body is different. (I wish I could really get this point drilled into everyone’s head who walks in the store). Some people may not feel like they have a specific G-”spot”, but more like a general place or feeling or maybe nothing at all. G-spots don’t always lead to, include or involve orgasms - and definitely not one “type” of orgasm.

Also - not everyone likes getting their G-spot touched. (One man that came into the store last month was literally open-mouthed shocked at this suggestion…I mean, does everyone like getting their feet rubbed? Their knuckles cracked? I don’t.)

So, if you’re one of these people, don’t panic. If you’re having mind-blowing sex and fabulous orgasms WITHOUT any kind of G-spot involved, don’t sweat it. Don’t kill yourself over trying to fix what isn’t broken.

Maybe more importantly, this G-spot everyone is always talking about is not the end-all/be-all, the best of the best, if-you-don’t-find-it-your-orgasm-isn’t-as-good-as-mine kind of place that everyone cracks it up to be. What works for you works for you. If that’s the G-spot, great. If that’s your own, whatever you wanna name it spot, awesome. If it makes you say OMG (for you non-tech savvy, that’s shorthand for Oh My God), than that’s a great spot. Right?

Still not satisfied?

Read the book.

Helping you find spots that make you say OMG,

* dentaldamAge