We’re quite active in bed, having sex at least once a day, and more than that on weekends. This leads Jeff to have impressive staying power, sometimes more than I need. My favorite method to get him over the edge in that situation is a nice vibe. While I might use one in any number of ways, he loves it when I use an egg or bullet vibe. I fully insert it inside me, making sure the wire is readily available to aid in removal, and then he re-enters me. Depending on our positioning the vibe can be resting against his penis as he penetrates me, or just creating ambient vibrations inside me. My vibra-vag trick, to coin a term, never ceases to have him cumming in a minute. I gingerly pull on the wire and use a finger to aid in removal of the toy, and we have not had any problems.

Our other favorite game has evolved over time, and is not for the homophobes out there. I like to play dom sometimes, and he is willing to be my sub. We also switch roles in other instances, but the former scenario is more common with us.

Our game started near the end of a session. He had been a wonderfully obedient sub, and I wanted to reward him with some oral and an orgasm. However, I still wanted to maintain my role. While administering oral, I reached around and started playing with his anus. First just touching, then tickling, then penetrating it with my finger and, lastly, stroking his prostate. His orgasm was like an explosion; I had never seen him cum so hard, both in intensity and volume. He was shaking because he came so fiercely. He was hooked on prostate orgasms thereafter.

Next time we were in our roles, I upped the ante. Again, at the end of our session, I took him into my mouth, and, after starting with a finger, I eventually inserted a long, thin and powerful vibrator in his ass. I slowly penetrated and withdrew the toy from his ass, all the while pleasing him orally and listening to his moans. By the time he came, he was bucking on the toy and yelling, and I could hardly handle the flooding volume of his ejaculate.

Our anal play has continued to evolve. At this point our fem/dom scenarios often end with me wearing a strap-on with a vibrating dildo attachment. As the dom, I don’t exert myself too much, but it is deliciously sexy to lie on my back while he rides my vibrating dildo. I use well lubed hands to stroke his erection as he rides. When his orgasm is imminent, he stops riding me and holds his position. At that point I will start using my hips to penetrate him deeply and really stroke his hard-on vigorously. Despite the fact that he is riding the toy, his orgasms are usually powerful enough to have his semen all over my breasts, neck and face. However, since I’m still the dom until we’re out of bed, I make him lick it off.

To answer an obvious question, my husband is straight and quite secure in his sexuality. He has just become a prostate orgasm junkie, and I find it super sexy to play with his ass and indulge him. For those of you that have the pleasure of being with man that enjoys anal play, I hope the preceding has given you some additional ideas.