Boys Can Use Vibrators Too!
By Allison • Feb 26th, 2008 • Category: How-TosAt Good Vibrations, we often get asked if or how boys can enjoy vibrators. For too long it seems, vibrators have been seen as a “woman only toy” when that couldn’t be farther from the truth! We think everyone can find something to love about the stimulation you can receive from vibrations, and we’ve included a few of our favorite tips to help you discover why vibrators aren’t just for the ladies anymore.
Warm up for Anal Sex – At GV we are always stressing the importance of warming up your body before anal sex and a light, vibrating massage on or around the anus can be the just the thing to get you relaxed, aroused and ready to go!
Prostate Play – Take your prostate play to the next level by adding some vibration! Just make sure any toy that is inserted anally (vibrating or otherwise) has a flared base to keep your toy from getting stuck. And always remember to use lots of lube!
Oral Sex Stimulator- Bring some zing to your oral sex by placing a vibrator on your cheek when servicing your partner. The vibrations will carry through your mouth and give your partner an extra thrill.
Don’t want to give up your favorite Dildo? You don’t have to!- Turn any dildo or butt plug into a vibrating toy by placing a vibrator at the base. This works especially well with silicone and will transmit the vibrations though your toy, giving your old favorite a whole new life!
Feel the Vibe- Vibrators can also provide great stimuli to the penis (head or shaft), balls, perenium, nipples or anus. Explore your sensitivities and maybe find some new favorite body parts along the way! Choosing a vibrator with different speeds can help pick out the perfect amount of intensity, and feels oh so good.
So you see anyone can get pleasure from a vibrator, and there are so many different styles, sizes, and functions we know there’s a perfect vibrator out there just waiting for you to discover it!
Allison >> Allison was a past editor of Good Vibrations Magazine! And, she likes bats.
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My husband and I are both big fans of vibrators. We use them together and when we’re alone. While the list above provides some wholly viable suggestions, it does not address some of our favorite games.
We’re quite active in bed, having sex at least once a day, and more than that on weekends. This leads Jeff to have impressive staying power, sometimes more than I need. My favorite method to get him over the edge in that situation is a nice vibe. While I might use one in any number of ways, he loves it when I use an egg or bullet vibe. I fully insert it inside me, making sure the wire is readily available to aid in removal, and then he re-enters me. Depending on our positioning the vibe can be resting against his penis as he penetrates me, or just creating ambient vibrations inside me. My vibra-vag trick, to coin a term, never ceases to have him cumming in a minute. I gingerly pull on the wire and use a finger to aid in removal of the toy, and we have not had any problems.
Our other favorite game has evolved over time, and is not for the homophobes out there. I like to play dom sometimes, and he is willing to be my sub. We also switch roles in other instances, but the former scenario is more common with us.
Our game started near the end of a session. He had been a wonderfully obedient sub, and I wanted to reward him with some oral and an orgasm. However, I still wanted to maintain my role. While administering oral, I reached around and started playing with his anus. First just touching, then tickling, then penetrating it with my finger and, lastly, stroking his prostate. His orgasm was like an explosion; I had never seen him cum so hard, both in intensity and volume. He was shaking because he came so fiercely. He was hooked on prostate orgasms thereafter.
Next time we were in our roles, I upped the ante. Again, at the end of our session, I took him into my mouth, and, after starting with a finger, I eventually inserted a long, thin and powerful vibrator in his ass. I slowly penetrated and withdrew the toy from his ass, all the while pleasing him orally and listening to his moans. By the time he came, he was bucking on the toy and yelling, and I could hardly handle the flooding volume of his ejaculate.
Our anal play has continued to evolve. At this point our fem/dom scenarios often end with me wearing a strap-on with a vibrating dildo attachment. As the dom, I don’t exert myself too much, but it is deliciously sexy to lie on my back while he rides my vibrating dildo. I use well lubed hands to stroke his erection as he rides. When his orgasm is imminent, he stops riding me and holds his position. At that point I will start using my hips to penetrate him deeply and really stroke his hard-on vigorously. Despite the fact that he is riding the toy, his orgasms are usually powerful enough to have his semen all over my breasts, neck and face. However, since I’m still the dom until we’re out of bed, I make him lick it off.
To answer an obvious question, my husband is straight and quite secure in his sexuality. He has just become a prostate orgasm junkie, and I find it super sexy to play with his ass and indulge him. For those of you that have the pleasure of being with man that enjoys anal play, I hope the preceding has given you some additional ideas.