The Final Spots
By Red Delicious • Nov 1st, 2007 • Category: Female Ejaculation, G-Spot, sex tipsFinally, the long awaited conclusion to my three part spot blog. In the first two posts I filled you in on the C-spot, the G-spot, and the P-spots. (Please feel free to read the previous posts I’m Seeing Spots and Still Seeing Spots if you haven’t already.) There are two spots left in this journey, both lesser known than the others but extremely important and possibly very useful to folks out there. These spots go by the letters A and U, and are both female-bodied pleasure zones.
First things first, both these pleasure zones are fairly new to the game so not much consistent or reliable research, of the professional nature that is, has been conducted to discover their secrets. What you will hear from me is mostly my own speculation from what I have read in independent articles found online combined with my own knowledge of sexual anatomy and response. So take heed- to really understand these spots and the pleasure-potential they carry, conducting your own research is highly advised. ::wink, wink::
The A-spot, also known as the anterior fornix or the AFE Zone, is an area of tissue located deep into the vagina, just above the cervix on the anterior wall. The “fornix” is the circular recess that surrounds the cervix (which protrudes downward into the vagina). While slamming into the cervix can be quite painful, not to mention dangerous, carefully executed, firm pressure against the A-spot can lead to much sensual fabulousness. Some folks say that stimulating this spot causes a tremendous increase in vaginal lubrication AND that it can lead to more powerful orgasms than clitoral stimulation alone. I say that the A-Spot might be a key to why some people really enjoy deep vaginal penetration and hardcore thrusting and/or fisting. (Just to note, if you are interested in vaginal fisting please be careful and take the time to get informed first and move forward slowly. Remember, a baby’s head can cause tears in the vaginal opening, and a fist isn’t necessarily much smaller. AND always use lots of lube!!! Please Gel works great.)
On to the U-Spot…
The U-Spot is a term referring to the erectile tissue that lies around the urethral opening on a female body. The tissue is located above and on either side of this opening and becomes very sensitive upon arousal. Like I mentioned before this is one of the erotic “zones” that has only begun to be researched in more recent years so there isn’t a whole lot of information out there about it’s response to touch or the sensations stimulation of the area induces. Some folks say a soft tongue or slippery fingertip gently exploring the U-Spot is a wonderful feeling. I’m sure it is, but in my book, a soft tongue or slippery fingertip feels good just about anywhere when you’re turned on! Am I right?
So what’s my suggestion for exploring this spot? Firm pressure actually feels great against this area right around the point of climax. I’m speculating this might have something to do with female ejaculation. As you become aroused and get closer to orgasm, the urethral sponge swells with liquid from the Skenes glands. (See the GV article on G-Spot Ejaculation if this doesn’t sound familiar to you.) For many squirters, or female ejaculators, this liquid trickles out of the urethra like a sweet sap rather than exploding from our bodies in a beautiful arching stream. While the quantity and quality of ejaculate can very with many factors such as hydration and cycle, I think there may lie a possibility in combining stimulation of the G-Spot and pressure on the U-Spot to reach a more impressive and powerful ejaculation experience. You might try pressing against the U-Spot, covering the urethral opening gently, while stimulating your G-Spot with a partner or toy, and then lifting your fingers away from the urethra upon climax or a most pressing urge to squirt.
Let me know what you think about these ideas, as they are really only speculation from my own experience. And even though it is always a good idea to pee after sex, it’s even more important when you are experimenting with female ejaculation or the U-Spot. Our inhibitions around different sexual acts can sometimes cause us to impede our bodies’ own instincts to naturally release or expel things; and while in some cases (like with anal play) this can add to the experience, keeping your body from releasing liquids through your urethra can lead to infections which are fun for no one.
Well, that’s it for the Spots series. I hope everyone found at least one interesting tid bit to pass on about the A-Zs.
Play safe, keep an open mind, and always have fun!
~*~ Red ~*~
Red Delicious >> a blogger here at Good Vibrations!
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Fabulous Fabulous Spot blogs Red! Would you mind linking to your previous posts so that we can find them easily? You rock the blog spot, that’s for sure!
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So happy to see information on the Anterior Fornix here. I’d love to learn more. Are there specific toys that can stimulate that spot?
By the way, I saw Princess Donna’s teaching session on fisting and it was excellent! Kink.com is a great site!
Thanks for great info: both scientific and human. I wanted to share that, it seems to me, that the A-spot is the key to my lover’s fantastic ejaculation. Definitely the G-spot is orgasmic, but after learning about the A-spot and relating it to our experiences, I’d give it high importance in the wonderful gushing waves.