curve. for men.
By jameson • Nov 11th, 2006 • Category: BlogSo, for all the shit I talked about the flower scented wrist patch inducing female libido, I must admit that scent does affect sex and sexuality. No, I’m not going to write about pheromones, the scents without a scent. I’m talking about regular ol’ smells. Perfumes. Body odors and juices. Magazine paper. Dirt. Gasoline. Silicone.
I had my first girlsex experience about six years ago. I dumbly flirted for months and months before my conquest even noticed I was flirting (at the time, I counted “not fleeing the room when she walks in” to be flirting). She was Croatian. She had long hair. She wore cologne. We broke up about a year and a half into the relationship.
Fast forward to now.
I often find myself following random men around San Francisco. I stalk them not because they are Croatian or have long hair, but because they wear firstgirlfriend’s cologne. This makes for awkward situations and confused looks every now and then, but I can’t help the connection my brain makes with my nose. Her scent = sex. She was the first real “hot damn this is what I’ve been missing” sex, and now her smell is burned into that feeling. I cannot control it. It does something to my body; my girlpieces get all “ooh! mmmm.” and I sniff out the dude in the room wearing her cologne.
My current lovely uses more product than I do. Fancy shampoos and hair wax stuff and face washes. Her smells are expensive and purchasable only in fine salons. She doesn’t wear cologne, and I do pet her hair quite often, so the product smell is what reminds me and pulls. (Yes, there are other, more delicious scents that take me to her, but those are not for you to know, dirty pants. But I’m sure you can guess)…
How do I use this random babbling about smell to my advantage, Jameson?
Well, find out what scent makes your soft parts hard. Know what you smell like. Love what you smell like. Avoid scents that turn you off. (In the bathroom products line at Safeway, I pick up Old Spice deodorant and sexybeast girlfriend says: “My dad wears that”. I choose another brand.) Experiment with scents. Blindfold your lover and touch yourself, letting them smell your hand when you feel particularly generous.
If you like the idea of a scented patch to increase your libido, go to the perfume area of your favorite department store. Find the scent that you’d want your ideal partner to wear. Buy it. Put a little on your wrist in the morning; enough so you can smell it when your nose is close to your skin, but not enough so others notice (or as much as your heart desires. This is your life to dictate, not mine). Or, if you’re not into wearing the perfume, carry it in your purse (or manpurse). Take a whiff every now and then. Let yourself get turned on in the middle of the day.
Sniff your own damn panties when you’re chillin’ on the toilet. Why? Why not? The more you fully believe you are a sexy creature worthy of love and a good fucking, the more others will agree with you. The faster you decide your private perfume should be bottled and sold for millions of dollars, the less timid or nervous you will be when someone else’s nose is the judge.
Quite happily a fingersniffer,
.jameson.
jameson >> a very wholesome looking pervert who is a sex cheerleader by day, super sex cheerleader by night. she majored in women's studies but hates assumed gender differences, loves porn, and was never taught how to think her words are worthless, so obviously she likes to write (and talk and talk and talk, fast).
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Just wanted to let you know that I enjoy all of your posts… they always put a sexy idea in my mind! Thanks…