I’ve just finished reading your story. I am disabled 10 years now from an auto accident. I have permanent brain and spinal injuries since that day, but I’m totally self-sufficient, live alone, walk with a cane, etc.

My wife at the time left me, she found a lover on the internet and split just when I’d barely gotten out of the hospital after surgery. That was years ago.

Then in 2003 I met somebody. It was a dream come true. I’d never been so happy in all of my life, and we almost got married.

Unfortunately the dream ended after 3.5 years. I am so sad after this. I don’t know if I’ll ever meet somebody like that again. And the sex! The sex was fantastic, like nothing I’d ever experienced before. Whenever I think of her to this day, I get really hard and wet.

Prior to meeting her, getting an erection was near-impossible. Not even Viagra could help. Then we met, and in a loving relationship with a totally hot woman 6.5 years my senior, ED was a thing of the past. Being near her turned me into a teenager again with a constant raging hard-on.

With my situation and being on Social Security, I honestly don’t know if I’ll ever meet somebody so loving, so open-minded sexually and about life in general (a total freak is what she was!) about loving or partnering with a disabled man. I’m not complaining, I just don’t know if the odds are in my favor with my being 42 years old, and it seems that the best people are already married, not interested or totally freaky upon closer examination.

Sigh.

But I’m writing to let you know that reading your story has given me a little bit of inspiration and I wanted to thank you for that. Whatever happens in life is to a large degree out of my hands so I roll with the punches. It’d be nice to have a partner, my soul mate, but if that doesn’t happen, I’ve learned to be content with my own company.

Thanks again, Bella, for making my day.

garrick